When I first thought about working at The New Orleans I had a different concept of social content. I wanted to give it a new look, something to be proud of as well.
I wanted to show people there as well as those who might want to come there something creative and something to feed off. Well, given what the area is usually known for, people wanted to see The New Orleans Square in a different view from what it use to be known for. Reason why I was hired, to do social media and content . It was great I had a studio there, which was part of the deal.
So I began to create content for The New Orleans square which I began to call “The Nos”. It could’ve been a great project!!
I figured visuals would be better than any content. Even though it would be more time consuming than anything else. Have you ever have to edit any kind of video? It takes foreverrrr. lol But I knew if this vid thing would work for New Orleans Square id have something concrete for the social feed spree to view. Which seemed to be growing everyday. The people wanted more! But any way, as I did this the boss wasn’t to pleased. He didn’t like “The Nos”, he had issues with the videos; I was shocked and was like umm ok. He changed up the deal we had and well, I just figured this isn’t going to work. I see he didn’t hold the same vision as I did. Funny though, they’re doing a little videos here and there, and still using the term “The Nos”.
I think New Orleans Square is a really cool spot, I believe there is a fit there for artists if the New Orleans Square can bring those creative art types. But then again those who would love to be part of that live 24/7 as artists. They just don’t shut it down at night lol. Real artists are about living in their lifestyle. They breathe art, they become the art itself sometimes. Through writings, photos, and paint to what ever he or she choses to. I gave my very best to New Orleans Square. More than to my fiancé at the time. (Which is sad to admit). I practically lived there. Just to make sure “The Nos” was given the attention needed to bring life to a unique community that works there!
I learned a lot form being there. That I need to get focused on my personal life as well as the career. Working for the New Orleans Square has taught me that one mess isn’t another’s admirations. lol But in the time of having a studio at the New Orleans Square I have figured out so much about myself. From my wants to desire’s which I have found out that they’re two different things. lol My wants are just to make my writing a career and producing thing a success. My DESIRE IS TO BE ONE OF THE VERY BEST in the DJ industry. I get it now. Which I have to say no regrets on the mistakes I have made. But I do have regrets if I have hurt anyone in the process.
The start of everything for me.. It was a love story that became just that; A story. So long ago. The pain is no Longer there, but the adventure did begin from this very moment. It was my dream to have the abilty to share my experience and knowledge. As well bring other’s out about and let everyone know they are not alone. WE all make mistakes, and in due time I wanted to figure out why we do those things and such. I loved Jamie Frost, but did I love her enough to chase her down and prove how much I loved her? No, of course not. I figured she didn’t love me enough to stay and figure things out. Why should I.. See I could go, could’ve or she should bullshit lol. What I did figure out though I needed to search out why we do the things we do in the name of love. Im so tired of not knowing or feeling empty at moments. Knowing I’m not the only one person out there searching for answers. While thus for many who are dealing with what style they call being in a relationship to trying to do a professional career. For many of us we want both, for many so can’t handle it, while other’s plainly cheat to just lies as well. I never understood why would one lie to that person they supposedly loved or cared about? And the list goes on with why I created this, Coffee Grounds. I could go on and on, but truely I don’t. I have been asked sooo many times what is Coffee Grounds about? Well here is the starting point of it all, well the video part anyway lol . Much Love and Respect.
When You Love a Black Woman ..You cant come like a Nigga ..lol You cant come strong demanding shit .You come correct , Upgrade you Style and Attitude ( remember Im talking about a Black Woman ) Not a ride to die Bitch ,A Black Woman Needs YOU to come with Wisdom and Understanding, she doesnt need you for Dick she can that anywhere and anytime she wants it.
As I said Im talking about Loving A Black Woman.Her smiles lights up the Heavens, Her touch sends unknowing Sensations through the universe. She isnt Gehtto ,Nor a Hoe , She has made Mistakes ..she has been Mis Used and lied about. Called many words no Woman should be called.She isnt a Queen .But Has Been Long ago .
But Understand this Her Morther’s Mother’s has Been before her Was, even some was Worshiped as a Goddess. This is who you Lay with when Giving the opportunity.
When you are allowed to Kiss such Sweetness between her Beautful Thighs.Know your kissing perfection ..know your kissing the sweet lips of Royalty. Now The Sciene of Loving the Black Woman.
Ask her what she wants from you before you take things to the next level. Here’s why making love is a grown man’s game; if a woman wants a commitment and you’re not ready for that, move on. (There are plenty of females out there who are willing to play around.) Don’t hang around and lie to awoman just to “get it.” In the end, she’ll hate you and you’ll hate yourself.
Earn her trust. What does earning her trust mean? It means that before you enter her bed, demonstrate that you’re reliable. Keep your word to her. If you fuck up, apologize and atone to restore the trust. If your woman trusts you, she will be uninhibited in bed. Guaranteed.
Talk to her often. If you want sex, send a text. If you want to make love to a Black woman, call her. Pick up the phone and ask, “How was your day?” Your follow-up question should be: “How can I make your day brighter?” If she says flowers will make her day brighter, send them.
If she says just a few hours of peace will make her day brighter, do something to take a load off her plate. Your gesture must be genuine; give of yourself and don’t expect anything in return. This will make her fall in love with you. A woman who is in love with you will be uninhibited in bed. Guaranteed.
Curb your tongue. Everyday won’t be filled with butterflies and rainbows. There will be conflict. No matter your rough patch, however, you must never, ever, call a Black woman a degrading name. Do you know how many times a Black woman hears “bitch, ho, slut, thot,” etc., in popular media? Can you imagine how hurtful these words would be for her to hear from a person she loves? Such verbal abuse can kill the soul of a woman. Your Black woman will gradually distrust you, and your lovemaking sessions will eventually morph into passionless sex. Guaranteed.
Be prepared to please your Black woman. You will have to learn what she likes. Don’t bring another woman’s favorite moves into her bedroom. Taking the time to learn her erogenous zones will prompt her to do the same.
At this stage, your minds, bodies and souls will bond in the bedroom and beyond. Making love when you’re in love is the best thing ever . By FreedomMercado
Conscious Loving which is the enhancement of partner commitment through loving communion. It includes the experience of the “valley orgasm:” longer lasting and continuing waves of energy moving through the body. It is the heart level of sexuality.
I’d have to say, I was shocked seeing Aoni condoms at the AVN Expo. I would of thought Aoni would be more at a womens health and fitness expo.
Due to the top A grade product, they focus on science and health of the product itself.
Aoni is about the natural sensations. Beside being one of the top notch condoms; Just in 2013 Aoni Ultrathin 001% was awarded thinnesst atex condom Dec 2,
by Guiunness World Records !!for Aoni to make the finest product is to literally start at the beginning. So Aoni thy take shope before production stage with their Latex, for Aoni it’s essential part of their product, harvesting latex.
So for Aoni rubber still remains the most natural polymer with unique performance available to them to ensure that Aoni condoms can be top level above the rest. Continuing the strength needed for performance they yse a variety of differently treated and aged latex giving the product the perfect balance.
Such as high quality water is used. Although water only acts as the catalyst agent in the making of condoms. When it comes to creativity the finest condoms Aoni only uses the purest water possible.
They use reverse osmosis water treatment is by far one of the best ways to garuntee this (Ro is a process where in you demineralize or de-ionize water by pushing it under pressure through a semi permeable Ro membrane).
Beside Aoni quality ingredients, they have develop their own machienes to achieve a standard beyond the industry of the norm. The technology in their machienery allows them to handle their condoms. With the water most precicsion, ensuring that every outoput of condoms is crafted and made with care.
Aoni lubrication provides a mess free experience, which means no more oil stains or clean ups. Aoni condoms are washable, stain free, water based lubericants to mimic the natural secretion of the female body to ensure a pleasureable skin to skin experience. Aoni has mastered the amount of lubrication applied on each condom to provide useres a friction free experience.
Aoni is also being known for their signature fragrance. “Phere Essence” roots itself from the word “Pharom one” which the chemical that serves as a catalyst of ove and passion. Aoni newly created Phero Essence line is a blend of natual essence is ablend of natural essences extracted from rose, vanilla, incense wood, plants, amongst other natural aroma that stimulates the secretion of pheromines to enhave the love making experience as natural as possible with the wisdom and knowlede of today’s techonolgy on a safe level.
“Record-breaking thinnest latex condoms are displayed during a news conference in Hong Kong February 20, 2014. AONI, a Hong Kong funded brand, won the Guinness World Records last year for its AONI ultra-thin 001 natural rubber latex condom. The world’s thinnest latex condom has an average thickness of 0.036 mm (0.001417 inches). REUTERS/Tyrone Siu (CHINA – Tags: SOCIETY SCIENCE TECHNOLOGY)”
As I tore another sheet of paper out of my crisp yellow note pad, I was asked by a friend about how many sheets of paper I waste. I looked at my friend and I really thought about it. Anyone who knows me, or better yet, anyone who has been given the chance to have a meeting with me or hang out with me knows that I’m a writer and that I write old school style. Paper, pencil, no pen, nor any of those sissy style whimsy mechanical pencils. I go raw with it, equipt with the original. Ladies and Gents, I have my pencil, pencil sharpener and paper. Oh yeah, having one’s pencil gliding on a crisp sheet of good writing paper. It’s good for the soul. Any true writer of the old ways will agree! But when asked about how much paper I waste? I have to say I think it’s shamelessly a lot of paper. For me, I don’t like to erase a misspelling and I don’t want to. I just simply don’t like a messy paper of erased ideas or thoughts. So I just rip the paper out of my sight. It’s no longer in my vision, nor is it any longer a part of my essense.
It’s gone, usually like the women of my one night of passionate adventures.
Have a night and then just move on. I love writing as much as I love sex.
Why would I want to redo a sexual move or try to restart the date? That’s the same way I feel when writing. Why erase and rewrite the same crap over? Nah, not my bloody sheet of crisp paper. My choice of paper has always been a yellow note pad, but when I’m feeling risky I go for the pink note pad. I believe in waiting and taking my time in thought as to what I’m writing about. The same way I’m with a woman sexually. I take a glimpse at what kind of positioning the woman in front of me is doing. And luckily to say, I’ve had my share of unique positions. Still I’m proud to say that I’m happy with the woman I’m with right now. A woman who gives me the greatest position ever. No position can be better than being accepted as I am. So to answer the question about how many sheets of paper I’ve wasted, my answer is as many as it takes. My thoughts, my pencil, my paper. Good writing Ladies and Gents…
Everything humanity has ever created began with a thought. The place where you live, the clothes that you wear, and the Facebook which these words are allowed to be written on these called notes. Were once only a thought in someone’s mind. Your decision to read this, too began with a thought. Happiness shapes thought…
So thats what I like to think about, such as everything we think is colored by our happiness, or lack there of. Although individual definitions of Happiness vary greatly, we all want to be happy. Early in life, we look for happiness among family, friends, even in Marterials.
Later in life we look for happiness in religion, money, sex, alcohol; Some even through education, while other’s marriage… We all know where we have looked. But truely did we know what we where searching for? Openness Manifests Happiness…
I seem to be wanting to do things or better yet say things simple today. I dont want to go into such harsh details of why i think my life sucks for the moment. In other words I dont want to simply bitch just to bitch.
I see now that I do have many friends on here and in so ummm i think it’s; time to see who relates to my sort of thought process. To a great extent, the people whom I have chossen to associate influence the direction of my life. Which I must thank for all the enlightenment, due to thier thoughts and beliefs. I have become stronger within myself. I think and behave within my boundaries of beliefs. Which to many might think Omg someone save that poor lad! But I have figured out or better see that the key is to fulfilling my potenial without anykind of limitations.
I know understand me, my desires are the same for me as my will power to move forward. From my sexuality to spirituality. I know now that If i master my beliefs I master my mind.
I have learn so much about myself , espically my weakness. Which is just going off the freaking mouth and ripping whom ever walks into my path. Yet I have learn much from my friends on here, Lecia Smiley Wint, Goddess Trudyann Ewan, JoJo Meadows, Haze Dead Vegas. These are just some of the people who have been through my madness and seen the crazd ass brit going off on the world. Actually Jeannie Engel Paparone is someone new who; i have brought to my world she is making me healther in body. Which makes me more fit in the mind and spirit which makes me stronger in the soul as well. I have lost two really good people on here friends such as Misty Gaddy and Rochell Robbsion, two awesome ladies, and well nothing i can bloody do about it now. I See now the two sides of the coin ,which can be distinct yet inseparable, my live has a physical, tangible dimension and spiritual, which is a intangible one.
For me it is, many might say we differentiate between body and and mind. But logically look deep into it all it’s fundamental level, the Mind, Body, Soul, Heart and Spirit are inseparable. For those who might be shocked to see me writing this, let me simple it for you, if your in need of more than fucking someone, start holding his or hands it’s a bloody start. If your in a emotional stats with him or her, make it a physical one, making love to just fucking, you choose. It’s not fair for one to get one while the other isnt geting anything out of it. Women you are really good at doing this to men. lol I know, enough is enough. There need to be a balance. Danielle too sassy figure it out, I don’t want to go over this anymore i love you. I need balance! I always believed one should develop a broad compassion that reaches beyond your surroundings and extends to those you care about. My mother taught me to believe in noble men and women and learn from them. I also believe in wisdom of other’s but when can learn from within i believe one is enlightened. To open ones mind is to simply think of possibilities. So this is where i stand and believe in… This is where I go and move forward. Much love to everyone.