I was asked recently by a friend of a different culture. How do you love a Black Woman. This what I i came to think and and had to say about it. When You Love a Black Woman ..You cant come like a Nigga . ( I hate that word , I hate what it use to be used for and it has to much hate behind it to be anything positive ) That Word ughhh for some its well the word for your bo or bro. My point is if it can be used negative as well as positive. Then there is no need to use it at all, so I dont used it at all. Now forgive my rambling lets get back to how to love a Black Woman lol .
You cant come strong demanding shit .You come correct , Upgrade you Style and Attitude ( remember I’m talking about a Black Woman ) Not a ride to die Bitch ,A Black Woman Needs YOU to come with Wisdom and Understanding, she does not need you for Dick she can that anywhere and anytime she wants it.
As I said Im talking about Loving A Black Woman.Her smiles lights up the Heavens, Her touch sends unknowing Sensations through the universe. She isnt Gehtto ,Nor a Hoe , She has made Mistakes ..she has been Mis Used and lied about. Called many words no Woman should be called.She isnt a Queen .But Has Been Long ago .
- Ask her what she wants from you before you take things to the next level. Here’s why making love is a grown man’s game; if a woman wants a commitment and you’re not ready for that, move on. (There are plenty of females out there who are willing to play around.) Don’t hang around and lie to a woman just to “get it.” In the end, she’ll hate you and you’ll hate yourself.
- Earn her trust. What does earning her trust mean? It means that before you enter her bed, demonstrate that you’re reliable. Keep your word to her. If you fuck up, apologize and atone to restore the trust. If your woman trusts you, she will be uninhibited in bed. Guaranteed.
- Talk to her often. If you want sex, send a text. If you want to make love to a Black woman, call her. Pick up the phone and ask, “How was your day?” Your follow-up question should be: “How can I make your day brighter?” If she says flowers will make her day brighter, send them.
- If she says just a few hours of peace will make her day brighter, do something to take a load off her plate. Your gesture must be genuine; give of yourself and don’t expect anything in return. This will make her fall in love with you. A woman who is in love with you will be uninhibited in bed. Guaranteed.
- Curb your tongue. Everyday won’t be filled with butterflies and rainbows. There will be conflict. No matter your rough patch, however, you must never, ever, call a Black woman a degrading name. Do you know how many times a Black woman hears “bitch, ho, slut, thot,” etc., in popular media? Can you imagine how hurtful these words would be for her to hear from a person she loves? Such verbal abuse can kill the soul of a woman. Your Black woman will gradually distrust you, and your lovemaking sessions will eventually morph into passionless sex. Guaranteed.
- Be prepared to please your Black woman. You will have to learn what she likes. Don’t bring another woman’s favorite moves into her bedroom. Taking the time to learn her erogenous zones will prompt her to do the same.
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